As people get older, it’s normal for them to require a little more help and support. When you live or work overseas, however, it can be difficult to manage the logistics. Even if you’re committed to providing your parents with the assistance they need, the distance may make it difficult for you to take a hands-on approach. 

However, you can still ensure your parents get the care they deserve. If you live abroad or are regularly overseas, take a look at these top tips for looking out for elderly parents from a distance…

Put practical support in place

If your parent requires help with meal preparation, maintaining their home or getting around, you can put a support network in place. As well as seeking help from other family members, make use of companies geared towards seniors. There are plenty of practical support services on offer, so you can ensure that your parent has access to the day-to-day assistance they require. 

Have a backup plan

It’s not unusual for things to go wrong from time to time, so be sure to have a backup plan in place when you’re travelling. If your parent has a doctor’s appointment and their usual driver can’t take them, reach out to someone who can. By having a backup plan in place, you can avoid unnecessary stress and give your parent peace of mind. What’s more, you can alleviate your own anxiety by having a contingency plan in place. 

Elderly parents are more likely to trip or fall, so if you are abroad you could get peace of mind by purchasing a personal alarm for them. In the event of an accident, these alarms can get help for your parents even when you are not around.

Find the right care

As your parents get older, they may need more care then they do now. Being prepared for this can help to make the transition easier for them, so be proactive. Jonathan Rosenfeld, nursing home abuse case specialist, often helps families when the level of care someone has received has been below par, but this needn’t happen to you. Talk to local care providers now, and use online resources like Caregiverlist to ensure your parents have access to high-quality support and care when needed.

Stay in touch

When you’re living overseas, you won’t get to see your parents as much you would like. Although time zones can make it difficult to talk, make the effort to touch base with them regularly. As well as calling often, send cards through the mail and email them, if your parents have a computer or smartphone. Many seniors are experienced tech users, so explore a range of ways to stay connected. 

Have people on the ground

Reach out to extended family members or friends who live locally and ask them for information. Your parents may be reluctant to tell you when things go wrong but it’s essential that you know. By having people on the ground, you can ensure you have a thorough understanding of how much support is really needed. 

Providing Support from Abroad

Being separated from loved ones when they need your help can be challenging. Fortunately, technology and travel make it easier to ensure your parents have the support they need as they get older. By being involved in their care and being part of their support network, you can still play an active role in looking out for your parents as they get older. 

Disclosure: This is a collaborative post.